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Coming Out: Why So Serious?
 
# 31 : Wednesday 23-10-2013 @ 19:57
 
 
Dad found out I was gay because when I was on the mobile arranging my first proper hookup in 2002, he was listening in in the hall outside my bedroom. At first he was not pleased and tried to stop me leaving. After I came back he asked me straight out and I burst into tears and admitted it because there was no point in denying what was obvious, and also I felt he would not give me as hard a time about not being stereotypically "manly" if he understand the reasons for my personality being as it was.
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# 32 : Wednesday 23-10-2013 @ 20:16
 
 
Someone said :
My new workmate mentioned that's he's into kinky stuff. He has a partner and a couple of kids.
I was thinking of asking him would he like a threesome.

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# 33 : Wednesday 23-10-2013 @ 21:22
 
 
Well done Joe!

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# 34 : Wednesday 23-10-2013 @ 21:41
 
 
Yes well done Honest Joe.
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# 35 : Wednesday 23-10-2013 @ 22:31
 
 
Thanks Guys.
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# 36 : Wednesday 23-10-2013 @ 22:50
 
 
Kudos to you Joe!
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# 37 : Wednesday 23-10-2013 @ 23:10
 
 
+uno Joe.
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# 38 : Wednesday 23-10-2013 @ 23:55
 
 
Cheers!
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# 39 : Saturday 4-1-2014 @ 00:55
 
 
Don't watch Eastenders but did tonight to see how the outed guy fared out,it was really moving and hopefully true to life for most gay teens,great acting from the character and his dad.
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# 40 : Saturday 4-1-2014 @ 07:26
 
 
Someone said :
Don't watch Eastenders but did tonight to see how the outed guy fared out,it was really moving and hopefully true to life for most gay teens,great acting from the character and his dad.

I told my mother in 2012 when I was 23. At the time I had just joined gaire and was chatting to more gay people than my usual circle so I was starting to feel a bit conscious about not being out and expecting others to take me seriously. Also I was healthier than I had been previously and nearly finished college and things were going well generally. Anyway I don't know what came over me one morning, I hadn't planned it, but I just felt it was the right time. So I said "I have something to tell you" and she knew it was serious. Then I said "i'm gay" and started to cry. Then she took out her whip and flogged me to a soggy mess. Lol. No, she hugged me and told me it was fine and all that mammy consoling stuff and then right after that she started into all the nosey mammy questions like how long did I know, had I been with anyone, did my friends know etc. And then she said something along the lines of "oh you poor thing bottling it up all this time, that must have been why you were so cross as a teen" and I said no, it was grand and didn't really bother me and I knew loads of gay people and she was really surprised young people were telling each other so casually. Anyway that was all grand and since then anytime I introduce a new friend I get "is he gay" or "does she know you're gay". Also any time gay is mentioned when it's just the two of us I get little pep talks about it all being natural and look at (insert list of Irish gay men here). Also whenever "same love" by macklemore comes on she turns it up and says "i love this song, i love the words". Also shes always asking nosey questions about my bf and she has started calling him by a funny nickname. So yeah, it couldn't have went better especially considering she is 65 and I'm glad I waited untill I was a bit older to tell her.
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# 41 : Saturday 4-1-2014 @ 07:50
 
 
Someone said :
My family on my dad's side (including my father) were home because of our Granddad's health scare.
Last week were were expecting to have a funeral to attend at any moment, but he's since pulled out (this guy is in his mid 90's) and is recovering fine!

Once things settled down but before people started going back, I used the weekend to have 'the conversation' with my father. I knew he already knew, but I hadn't yet spoke to him about it.

Anyway it's behind me now and it went grand.

Hmmm I didn't know you had any contact with your dad.
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# 42 : Saturday 4-1-2014 @ 08:56
 
 
Someone said :
Don't watch Eastenders but did tonight to see how the outed guy fared out,it was really moving and hopefully true to life for most gay teens,great acting from the character and his dad.

It was an excellent scene and well acted out by both sides. Very moving and emotional. It will be interesting to see how the storyline plays out as it seems the mother won't be so accepting in this case.
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# 43 : Saturday 4-1-2014 @ 09:38
 
 
I am starting to wonder if the actor is actually gay because that was just SO convincing.
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# 44 : Saturday 4-1-2014 @ 09:52
 
 
I don't know what he looks like but he is a cutie for sure!
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# 45 : Saturday 4-1-2014 @ 09:55
 
 
He has blonde hair and smooth pink skin. He is also fit but in a very thin way.
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