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# 16 : Monday 2-4-2012 @ 22:29
 
 
If you were to believe what he says which I wouldn't for a second.
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# 17 : Monday 2-4-2012 @ 22:29
 
 
We can't read minds so we don't know either way. He has people's advice.
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# 18 : Monday 2-4-2012 @ 22:30
 
 
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We can't read minds so we don't know either way. He has people's advice.

True.
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# 19 : Monday 2-4-2012 @ 22:31
 
 
In my opinion it is best, when coming out to someone, to lay the groundwork carefully so it won't come as mucb of a shock to them as would otherwise be the case. I am not blaming Mr.Positive but I would ask if he did this? Maybe she is in a state of shock and that is why she didn't invite him. Maybe she is not sure how to deal with this. Or maybe the problem is not on her side but rather her fiance, who may not be comfortable with gay people?

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# 20 : Monday 2-4-2012 @ 22:33
 
 
Someone said :
If you were to believe what he says which I wouldn't for a second.

So he fakes a coming out to his sister story. They don't speak for a year or so , and he is upset at not being invited to her wedding.

Would you ever get real!
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# 21 : Monday 2-4-2012 @ 22:34
 
 
I think though for threads like this we should go with the presumption of honesty.

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# 22 : Monday 2-4-2012 @ 22:49
 
 
I Agree
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# 23 : Monday 2-4-2012 @ 23:07
 
 
Someone said :
I think I'm starting to come out of my depression. I no longer seem to cry about anything.

Glad to hear it .
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# 24 : Monday 2-4-2012 @ 23:15
 
 
Someone said :

Glad to hear it .

Thank you.
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# 25 : Thursday 5-4-2012 @ 02:04
 
 
Someone said :
It's not something I've experienced really in any large capacity apart from the odd bad day here and there.

It is something though that Gaireans have spoke about and shared their experiences here.

It's something too that some of my friends here have experienced and continue to experience and if writing some words down here where other Gaireans offer some compassion and love helps then I hope this thread continues

I'm sure this post can be updated for where to go for help but here's what I can think of now.


Samaritans ...

http://www.samaritans.org/talk_to_someone/find_my_local_branch/ir etc ...

Gay Switchboard

http://www.gayswitchboard.ie/


There can be huge support here on Gaire too

Terrific to post these.
Have a friend in Cork going through a tough time after a break-up. Told him to check the threads on here to see some links to gay friendly services he might look into, on account of getting no response for several days from a counselor a friend had recommended to him, except a voicemail referal to another counselor (who never called back...). I'm appalled, as even he said "What if I'd been calling from a cliffside?!"
I hope everyone will chuck aside fear and seek help (and re-seek it if need be) in a moment of crisis. There are people who care.
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# 26 : Thursday 5-4-2012 @ 09:03
 
 
Someone said :
Well hard to know when you only get one side of the story.

I would love to hear hers, but what I have said earlier is true. Believe what you want!
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# 27 : Thursday 5-4-2012 @ 09:49
 
 
I apologise for doubting you so. I would have it out with her, it seems pretty fucked up to exclude someone like that.
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# 28 : Thursday 5-4-2012 @ 09:52
 
 
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I apologise for doubting you so. I would have it out with her, it seems pretty fucked up to exclude someone like that.

It's ok penny, it's a hard one to believe! I was thinking of sending a congrats card, but I wonder if its being bitter or just mature about it? What do you think?
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# 29 : Thursday 5-4-2012 @ 09:54
 
 
When she is back call around to her house and have it out with her, I don't think anyone needs bitterness in their life.
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# 30 : Thursday 5-4-2012 @ 15:56
 
 
Someone said :

It's ok penny, it's a hard one to believe! I was thinking of sending a congrats card, but I wonder if its being bitter or just mature about it? What do you think?

I think that would be a nice thing to do. Maybe include a note that you hope to see her soon and follow up by dropping in to see her.

I hope it goes well .
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