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Homophobia Or The Fear Of Anal Sex
 
# 16 : Sunday 23-2-2014 @ 20:04
 
 
Someone said :
Why not? I'm more than just sexually attracted to men. I have no emotional interest in women as partners.

No, your strong sexual attraction to men leads to an emotional interest and emotional attraction.
I agree that there is a strong emotional attraction but only because of the sexual attraction.
If you were sexually attracted to women - that would cause you to love everything about women, ie an emotional attraction.
Sexual attraction is very powerful.
Homosexuality is a sexual orientation, not an emotional orientation.
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# 17 : Sunday 23-2-2014 @ 20:29
 
 
What about relationships without a sexual aspect to it? They do exist. I know of one couple who are together nearly ten years and they never had sex.
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# 18 : Sunday 23-2-2014 @ 20:43
 
 
Someone said :
What about relationships without a sexual aspect to it? They do exist. I know of one couple who are together nearly ten years and they never had sex.

So, some people are friends with each other.
I don't think homophobes have a problem with that.
I have a relationship with my mother without having sex with her.
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# 19 : Sunday 23-2-2014 @ 20:43
 
 
Someone said :

No, your strong sexual attraction to men leads to an emotional interest and emotional attraction.
I agree that there is a strong emotional attraction but only because of the sexual attraction.
If you were sexually attracted to women - that would cause you to love everything about women, ie an emotional attraction.
Sexual attraction is very powerful.
Homosexuality is a sexual orientation, not an emotional orientation.

I don't agree with that at all. You are saying that homosexuality is purely based on sexual desire and nothing else. Perhaps that is how your own homosexuality manifests itself but I think different people experience life differently.
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# 20 : Sunday 23-2-2014 @ 20:44
 
 
Its alright when in the early eighties I remember sitges it was our family holiday spot but the gays came in and took it over I think there's too many gays now and normal ity is being pushed aside thats the real fear gays don't see what their doing they have to remain minority
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# 21 : Sunday 23-2-2014 @ 20:45
 
 
Someone said :

So, some people are friends with each other.
I don't think homophobes have a problem with that.
I have a relationship with my mother without having sex with her.

You're completely missing the point! For some couples sex and/or sexual attraction does not define their relationships.
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# 22 : Sunday 23-2-2014 @ 20:48
 
 
Someone said :

So, some people are friends with each other.
I don't think homophobes have a problem with that.
I have a relationship with my mother without having sex with her.

No, I'm talking about romantic relationships that aren't sexual.
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# 23 : Sunday 23-2-2014 @ 21:14
 
 
Someone said :

I don't agree with that at all. You are saying that homosexuality is purely based on sexual desire and nothing else. Perhaps that is how your own homosexuality manifests itself but I think different people experience life differently.

I think they just don't understand themselves correctly.
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# 24 : Sunday 23-2-2014 @ 21:16
 
 
Someone said :

You're completely missing the point! For some couples sex and/or sexual attraction does not define their relationships.

I'm not saying it defines their relationships but if there is no sexual attraction between two people then surely it's just a friendship.
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# 25 : Sunday 23-2-2014 @ 21:18
 
 
Someone said :

No, I'm talking about romantic relationships that aren't sexual.

So you're talking about friendships.
Or else, how are they romantic?
Do they hug each other? Friends do that.
Do they sleep in the same bed? Some friends do that.
Do they kiss on the lips without tongues? Some friends do that.
Do they kiss with tongues but go no further?
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# 26 : Sunday 23-2-2014 @ 21:22
 
 
Someone said :

So you're talking about friendships.
Or else, how are they romantic?
Do they hug each other? Friends do that.
Do they sleep in the same bed? Some friends do that.
Do they kiss on the lips without tongues? Some friends do that.
Do they kiss with tongues but go no further?

Maybe they are in love? You can be in love with someone and not have sex with them. Friends aren't in love with each other.
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# 27 : Sunday 23-2-2014 @ 21:22
 
 
Someone said :

I think they just don't understand themselves correctly.

You seem to think that your experiences are the only experiences and the correct ones.
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# 28 : Sunday 23-2-2014 @ 21:25
 
 
Someone said :

Maybe they are in love? You can be in love with someone and not have sex with them. Friends aren't in love with each other.

Exactly.
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# 29 : Sunday 23-2-2014 @ 23:28
 
 
Someone said :

Maybe they are in love? You can be in love with someone and not have sex with them. Friends aren't in love with each other.

So, what's the difference between
a. loving someone
and
b. being in love with someone

I think being in love with someone means you love them and are sexually attracted to them.
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# 30 : Sunday 23-2-2014 @ 23:52
 
 
I argued with a bible basher about anal sex,told him that some did some didn't,he was adamant that all did,I wondered if he honed his opinion in the boiler house.
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