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Homophobia Or The Fear Of Anal Sex
 
# 46 : Tuesday 25-2-2014 @ 12:01
 
 
Someone said :
yeah... let them all die from AIDS

No, don't be surprised If such a thing happens!
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# 47 : Tuesday 25-2-2014 @ 12:37
 
 
Someone said :

No, don't be surprised If such a thing happens!

of course and you with the daily mail style placards saying "down with human rights"
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# 48 : Tuesday 25-2-2014 @ 13:06
 
 
A lot of straight people probably presume through ignorance that all gay men participate in anal sex in one way or another.
While it is important to correct them it is equally important to point out that many straight couples also enjoy anal sex.
As much as there is an ignorance in thinking all gay men have anal sex there is also an ignorance in believing that admitting to enjoying anal sex as a heterosexual will somehow make you seem gay, at least in when it comes to the man being penetrated.

Instead of pushing Some Gay men like Anal, some Don't', it would be better to make it clear that 'Some Men like anal, some Don't'

Anal sex has nothing to do with sexual orientation.


As for straight men in jail having sex, or a gay man with no other option sleeping with a woman.

Close your eyes and the person you are fucking can be anyone.
If you stick your cock through a hole in a wall and someone sucks it, can you tell if that person is male or female?
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# 49 : Tuesday 25-2-2014 @ 13:31
 
 
Someone said :

Close your eyes and the person you are fucking can be anyone.
If you stick your cock through a hole in a wall and someone sucks it, can you tell if that person is male or female?

Yes, I just check for lipstick after. Stubble can be a dead give away too.
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# 50 : Tuesday 25-2-2014 @ 14:00
 
 
Someone said :

Close your eyes and the person you are fucking can be anyone.

That is a really interesting statement. I am quite interested in male sexuality from an educational perspective because sometimes I find it different from female sexuality in many ways.

Am I reading too much into that statement? It suggests it potentially doesn't really matter who or what you are having sex with. Something that is utterly foreign to me as it is absolutely fundamental who I am having sex with.
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# 51 : Tuesday 25-2-2014 @ 14:12
 
 
I was referring more to the use of fantasy when you are in a situation such as jail, or stranded on a desert island, but its not an uncommon fantasy to pretend that you are sleeping with someone else i suppose.

I think that sexuality is fluid and i think that under certain circumstances some people would cross boarders faster than others.

I believe that people would be more open to who they have sex with were it not for how society has evolved and how certain things are looked on as being abnormal or taboo.
There are probably more people avoiding experiences because of how they feel society will view them rather than any sort of orientation boundary.

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# 52 : Tuesday 25-2-2014 @ 15:34
 
 
Someone said :

I believe that people would be more open to who they have sex with were it not for how society has evolved and how certain things are looked on as being abnormal or taboo.
There are probably more people avoiding experiences because of how they feel society will view them rather than any sort of orientation boundary.

Very true.
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# 53 : Tuesday 25-2-2014 @ 17:17
 
 
Someone said :

We could ask you the same question phrased slightly differently. How can you know its not possible?

Otherwise there is no difference between loving someone and being in love with someone.
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# 54 : Tuesday 25-2-2014 @ 17:35
 
 
Someone said :

As for straight men in jail having sex, or a gay man with no other option sleeping with a woman.

Close your eyes and the person you are fucking can be anyone.
If you stick your cock through a hole in a wall and someone sucks it, can you tell if that person is male or female?

I'd rather have a wank than have sex with a woman.
But then again I'm not into anal sex or being sucked.
I'm into kissing though and I don't think I'd want to kiss a woman with my eyes closed and pretend it's a man.
I haven't spent 20 years in a female-only environment though so who knows?

I've heard some homosexual men say "a hole is a hole" when I ask them how they had sex with a woman.
That usually makes me think - well a human being is a human being also regardless of gender so what makes these people homosexual as opposed to heterosexual?
I guess the anus on a woman is the same as the anus on a man so if having your penis inside an anus is important to you...
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# 55 : Tuesday 25-2-2014 @ 23:20
 
 
Someone said :

Otherwise there is no difference between loving someone and being in love with someone.

Not sure how that answers the question
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# 56 : Thursday 1-5-2014 @ 21:40
 
 
why be afraid?
and if it wasn't so good then why ban it in the bible?
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# 57 : Thursday 1-5-2014 @ 22:05
 
 
Someone said :

You can't fall emotionally in love with a woman that you aren't sexually attracted to and then develop sexual attraction to her.

This is total bollox. Sometimes the emotional attraction comes first.
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# 58 : Thursday 1-5-2014 @ 22:16
 
 
Sometimes you just know...


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# 59 : Tuesday 1-7-2014 @ 21:08
 
 
Someone said :
There's more too a relationship, than having sex and children!

I just read that as 'There's more to a relationship than having sex with children'...

Phew!
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# 60 : Tuesday 1-7-2014 @ 21:16
 
 
Someone said :
Sometimes you just know...

Brilliant!
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