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I Am A Secret Cock Lover
 
# 1 : Thursday 8-1-2015 @ 15:27
 
 
I have had cock a few times oral anal wanks the usual. The prob is I have a gf....... Is anybody else in this situation. In an ideal world I'd love to share a cock with her but she would not except me liking cock. Wat are ur taughts.....
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# 2 : Thursday 8-1-2015 @ 15:48
 
 
Talk to her about it possibly? Sounds like you're not happy with the current relationship.
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# 3 : Thursday 8-1-2015 @ 16:12
 
 
Someone said :
I have had cock a few times oral anal wanks the usual. The prob is I have a gf....... Is anybody else in this situation. In an ideal world I'd love to share a cock with her but she would not except me liking cock. Wat are ur taughts.....

Just cheat on her and future girlfriends.
You will have an exciting life.
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# 4 : Thursday 8-1-2015 @ 16:38
 
 
Many couples invite a third into their sex life, maybe this is a possibility with your situation. Plenty of excitement without having to cheat.
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# 5 : Thursday 8-1-2015 @ 20:03
 
 
Give it up or find a GF who is cool with it.
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# 6 : Thursday 8-1-2015 @ 20:12
 
 
Make sure you are getting regularly tested for sexually transmitted diseases. It would be a shame to pass on HIV or hepatitis onto your innocent girlfriend.
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# 7 : Thursday 8-1-2015 @ 20:12
 
 
Someone said :
I have had cock a few times oral anal wanks the usual. The prob is I have a gf....... Is anybody else in this situation. In an ideal world I'd love to share a cock with her but she would not except me liking cock. Wat are ur taughts.....

You are bisexual. Coming out as bisexual is easier than it was, but it can still be challenging.

You have three choices. Come out to her as bisexual and talk to her about it. Or end the relationship and then come out. Or stay in the relationship and don't deal with your sexual desires for males.

The last option is the worst. So choose one of the first two.

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# 8 : Thursday 8-1-2015 @ 20:14
 
 
He does have another choice (even if it isn't righteous), one it seems has already engaged in.
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# 9 : Friday 9-1-2015 @ 09:04
 
 
Sometimes the secrecy of it is the exciting part. Or the fact that I should not be doing it. I get very turned on giving a blowjob compared to licking a girl out. Even to the point I cum sucking cock.
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# 10 : Friday 9-1-2015 @ 09:13
 
 
Yeah, well, be honest with her or break up with her. You're cheating so you won't get much sympathy here.
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# 11 : Friday 9-1-2015 @ 09:19
 
 
Sometimes I hate how selfish people are, breaking a person's heart just so they can orgasam is about as low as it can get. Be honest with your girlfriend or break up with her because you're obviously in no position to commit fully to relationship.
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# 12 : Friday 9-1-2015 @ 09:28
 
 
Yes I suppose use are right.....its the right thing to do.
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# 13 : Friday 9-1-2015 @ 10:33
 
 
That's good that you can acknowledge that, best of luck.
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# 14 : Friday 9-1-2015 @ 14:21
 
 
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# 15 : Saturday 10-1-2015 @ 15:18
 
 
Hi cheekystevy1984,
May I ask have you thought what you want? Do you love your girlfriend and believe that you will be happy with this girl for life? Could you bare loosing her if you told her the truth?
Whatever advice you receive, it will be up to you to decide what you do. I think that the most important thing is that you have safe sex and use precautions at all times. If you have sex outside the relationship, whether white men or women, definitely look at getting tested. If you are in Dublin, every third Saturday there is free and confidential testing at Outhouse on Capel Street.
This can be a tough situation and you are damned if you do, and damned if you don't. You you need to talk to someone, here is great for advice or if you want someone to listen over the phone the Dublin Gay Switchboard is a fantastic service and is 100% confidential - Their number is 01 8721055 (mon-fri 6.30-9pm - www.gayswitchboard.ie)
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