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Me; "I'm Gay"... Girl; "I Don't Believe You"
 
# 1 : Friday 7-10-2016 @ 03:48
 
 
I had such a strange conversation with a girl tonight.

I wasn't sure wither she was just making conversation or hitting on me, so just to be polite I injected the patent pending "gay drop in a topic that isn't about being gay" into the conversation.
At the time (for whatever reason) we were talking about smoking areas and how it's the only place you can chat to people (becasue of loud music) I said something along the line of "...and when you're gay it's different becasue it seems an above average amount of gay people smokes..." (I didn't really care if this was true or accurate or not, the rhetorical purpose of the claim was to politely tell her I'm gay without giving her cause for embarrassment) so I dropped it in and we carried on with the conversation.

After a while she really started laying it on thick, and I just said "are you hitting on me?" she said something like "do you want me to be?" and I said "No, I really am gay".

...and she didn't believe me, she though I was trying to blow her off. Or using a white lie to reject her. (as if being gay would be a inconsequential and suitable white lie if I was straight!!)


Putting aside the fact that I tremendously distrust the integrity of people who do not believe you when you're stating fact, I mean, what kind of self confidence issues do you need to take something like a guy being gay, as being a rejection?

I'm no oil painting, I can't afford to turn away "hits" at the best of times, but on the few times I've been privileged enough by, I don't know, the "Goddess of beer goggles" to need to turn someone down sexually, I've just told them the truth.


Women.
Can't live with them, can't live without th.... Oh wait a minute, I'm gay!
Thank God for small mercies.
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# 2 : Friday 7-10-2016 @ 13:23
 
 
I don't think she gave a shit what you are. She just wanted to sloppy drunk suck your cock as you played with her tits not marry you. Get over yourself.
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# 3 : Friday 7-10-2016 @ 13:31
 
 
Someone said :
I don't think she gave a shit what you are. She just wanted to sloppy drunk suck your cock as you played with her tits not marry you. Get over yourself.

Are you this highly strung ALL OF THE TIME?

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# 4 : Friday 7-10-2016 @ 13:33
 
 
I was actually being ironic somewhat, maybe it went over your head.
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# 5 : Friday 7-10-2016 @ 13:38
 
 
Someone said :
I was actually being ironic somewhat, maybe it went over your head.

By telling someone to get over themselves? Nah don't think it did.

Seems the girl greenmanpp was chatting to having trouble believeing he's gay was the main gist I got from this story and the set up for discussion in this thread.

Your immediate repsponse was uncalled for in my humble opinion


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# 6 : Friday 7-10-2016 @ 13:48
 
 
believe me it was tongue in cheek. as was the her drunk sucking his cock while playing with her fat titties.


Someone said :

Your immediate repsponse was uncalled for in my humble opinion

Dry your eyes!
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# 7 : Friday 7-10-2016 @ 13:54
 
 
Someone said :

Dry your eyes!



I rest my case
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# 8 : Friday 7-10-2016 @ 22:02
 
 
Someone said :
I was actually being ironic somewhat, maybe it went over your head.

I could see that,from where I was sitting and I'm in Cork like.
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# 9 : Friday 7-10-2016 @ 22:27
 
 
thats women for ya , plenty of them think men are straight when the gay . women are wired different than men i know a guy who is gay , no women would think he was gay , but he is , i kinda think if there really really hot and single and constantly getting females attention , there is a 50 per cent chance there gay , so theree is a 100% chance there bi . Like look at all the famous men who were womens fantasy who were gay , strange world .
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# 10 : Friday 7-10-2016 @ 22:37
 
 
then again i though a girl was straight in a gay bar in uk , she looked at me and went nuts , pretty girl , didn't expect that , pissed me off too , did say a think , just looked at me and flipped out , I don't even know why she was there in first place , i think the testtosterone was messing with her head ,
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# 11 : Friday 7-10-2016 @ 22:59
 
 
Someone said :

I could see that,from where I was sitting and I'm in Cork like.

*nods* She's probably on her period.
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# 12 : Friday 7-10-2016 @ 23:32
 
 
Someone said :

*nods* She's probably on her period.

`

You seem on yours all of the time chicken!
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# 13 : Saturday 8-10-2016 @ 03:11
 
 
On the pill bbz
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# 14 : Saturday 8-10-2016 @ 23:22
 
 
Someone said :

*nods* She's probably on her period.

You know what to get her for christmas, a box of tampax and Womans Own.
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# 15 : Saturday 8-10-2016 @ 23:41
 
 
I've had that happen to me before. A very forward young woman, copious amounts of alcohol involved and her basically not wanting to take no as an answer.

I think it's like what people want what they can't have. And a lot of women are attracted to gay men because of (up to fairly recently ) better personal grooming, dress sense and greater emotional sensitiviity.

But then some women like men to be slobbish brutes...
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